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Mothers are beautiful. They are a pillar of strength, a best friend and most importantly and sometimes the only person who means well and roots for your happiness.
Some people just don’t get it, not their fault but they think talking about the following is a conversation topic. But most often, mothers do not like it if you ask them these. While some of them grin and others take it quite seriously.
Parenting advice Mother knows the best for their child and the last thing you want to do is give parenting advice. It’s a different situation when they ask for help but you don’t want to tell them what they feed their child, how they feed their child and what to do and not do. Some people think they are helping when in actual fact they are plainly annoying.
Second Child It’s a conversation topic really. There is no reason why anyone should show interest when a mother becomes a mother again. While asking when they are going to have another one and saying it will help the first one all comes from a place of love and care it really isn’t received well.
Day Care It’s really up to the mother on whether she sends her child to the day care or not. I have observed some stay at home mothers telling the working mothers how it’s great to have their child home, most often it is not helping. One idea never suits all, especially with children.
Again mothers knows the best for their children .Bringing up a child is happiness and challenge as it is and having to be told what to do is simply going to add stress to the mothers . Often it is interpreted as a social pressure leaving them all the more worried. And all this adds up to the wellbeing of the entire family.
Packaging your love and concern in a way that will be received well is usually the key.